Too tall.
Too short.
Too fat.
Too skinny.
Too many pimples.
Too stupid.
Too idiotic.
Too clumsy.
Too careless.
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Not pretty enough.
Not tall enough.
Not thin enough.
Not smart enough.
Not rich enough.
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Everyone has their own insecurities. Be it a pretty, thin girl, who's of a size 2. Or be it, an ugly fat girl, who's of a size 14 or 16. All these, are just a number. So what if you stand on a weighing scale and you see a 35 ? And so what if you stand on a weighing scale, and you see 75 ? All these, are just a number. So what if you check your height, and you see a 150?
So what if you're short, fat, ugly, pimpled, poor, stupid, careless..etc. The list goes on. Everyone has insecurities. So what if your sized aa30 ? And so what if you're sized d? Too small? People say that you're not developed. Too big? People say you're fake. Haters gonna hate, and you just have to be proud of you are.
You think the guy you like, dislikes you because of all these? You think it is because you're full of pimples, you're too fat, you're too short? Here's a wake up call, girls. Would you rather have a guy who loves you for your beauty, and can ONLY handle you at your best? Or would you rather have a guy who loves you even though you're fat, ugly, short, full of pimples, poor, stupid, careless, clumsy?
Girls, snap out of it. A guy who, claims to love you, when you're pretty is just plain dumb. He cant tell the difference between lust and love. Nothing is sexier than a girl who has confidence.
Especially, in herself.
You girls, have to stop wishing for beauty, lesser pimples, to be thinner, to be taller and whatsoever. Girls, you are all much more capable than that.
I know, I do wish for such. And I do have my own insecurities. But that is because, I also wanna improve myself. Who doesn't want to be that girl who is chased by every guy, and who is the girl everyone wants to be?
I'm magdelyn. I'm 163 centimeters tall. I'm size 8. Yes, thats fat. But who cares? I can't count how many pimples I have. I know I'm failing subjects. I know everyone thinks I'm weird. I know people says that I'm fake. I know I have a lot of haters. I know people are against my sexual orientation. And, I know how I'm not the first girl that would catch everybody's attention when I'm in a crowded room.
And the thing is, I know I'm beautiful, in my own ways. And I should start appreciating my strengths, and stop focusing on my flaws.
If he doesn't love you, for who you are, then the only thing you have to change, is the one in your heart. Don't change yourself. Change yourselves, because you want to improve yourself. It's stupid if you want to change for a guy.
I know I'm not perfect. But I'm not gonna change myself for the guy I love. I wanna improve myself, for me. And girls, I think you all should start to love yourself first, before venturing out , to loving others. Have confidence :) .
Whoever is out there reading this, I want you all to know that you're beautiful. :)
- Go ahead, talk about me behind my back. Saying that I'm acting all tumblr-ish. I don't care. Because, I've learnt a few things today. I'm more matured now :) And I pity you, if you have to resort to such unscrupulous ways of talking bad about such posts.
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