demanding attention

Today, I was thinking about how girls are always complaining how in every relationship.. We're always the ones in the losing end. Some girls complain about how they're suffocating in a relationship, and saying how they hope their boyfriends would pay them a little more attention.. Or how their boyfriends do not take notice of their wants and needs.. Or even how their boyfriends do not even take notice of them.

Just like all the good ol' housewives porn... The females get a new hairdo, new clothes but their men never take notice of it. Or how their husbands/boyfriends comes home late and when the wives/girlfriends demand an explanation, they give a broad answer of
"Oh, work."
"Oh, hanging out with friends"

Then the women get angry and start to lecture about how their men seem to be more interested about work/friends than them.

I used to think all these were logical.. I mean come on, your man IS your man after all. How would us, as females, know if their fucking some other girl pregnant. Or if they've got recently closer to some hot babe and is starting to lose interest in them... The main point is, the females never want to lose the males. The females want to know exactly everything the men do, just so the females know that they're not being lied to, will not have to worry about getting cheated on and to have the peace and security.

Then I realize, that THAT is the problem with us females.

The problem with us, females, is that we tend to over assume, over think and we're just too damn demanding.. We tend to not trust as well as how we used to and as the relationship progresses, and as soon as the time we've been together is long enough, the love might die out and the females will start to jump in to conclusions for the fear that the men are cheating on us. Once the trust goes out, the loves goes out.

Then wouldn't the whole thing have started on the females being too overly attached?

Unless you're a male who gives broad answers, and you constantly lie and lie and lie, which causes your girlfriend/ wife to be insecure.

Oh well.